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How Do You Express Gratitude?

Tuesday, December 23rd, 2008

Seems like all you hear about is financial turmoil, chaos in the market place, and many people feeling uncertain about what the future holds. What a perfect time to be a contrarian! The question I asked was: How do I express gratitude to people in my life that make things great?

The approach was simple: randomly give 5 people in my life a tangible expression of gratitude in a 24-hour period. I went to Costco first and purchased five $20.00 Starbucks Gift Card Pack (only $79.99, includes gift card sleeves – w00t!). I wrote thank you cards (see photo above) and put the give cards inside the envelope. Then, I went about my day and randomly chose people as I saw them.

Andy Hathaway of BMW of Austin has been servicing my car for the past 3 years. Always pleasant, Andy makes my life easy when it comes to car repair. He was an easy one to say thanks for all the excellent service.

Edie Lepgold, MD is my new doctor and recently moved to Austin. Imagine her surprise when at the completion of my first office visit, I hand her a thank you note with a gift card. She smiled and told me that every Saturday she meets a good friend at Starbucks to laugh and catch up. She would surprise her friend tomorrow!

All mail is directed to our local family owned Postal Net Store. These guys are great to work with and always make it easy.

Happily, Danny Davila is my CPA. His receptionist was the fourth person who got a thank you note with gift card. Always pleasant, she quietly keeps everything running smoothly. She was away from her desk when I arrived so I asked one of the partners to give it to her and say thanks for all the great work.

Josh Welch, Retail Services Manager, ABC Bank (South Austin Branch) has gone out of his way a number of times to make my life easy. That was an easy choice! Josh and his staff always make it easy for me.

As a leader, how do you express gratitude to the people on your team? What is one small tangible gesture you can make to the people around you to say thanks? While we often think about these gestures, what is most important is that you tangibly express your gratitude on a frequent basis. Develop this habit if you want to be considered a great leader!

Posted by Byron Van Arsdale
Twitter: @headset
Author – 16 Secrets to a Great Conference Call
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Holiday Health Tips for Leaders to Live By

Friday, December 19th, 2008

An essential consideration for any leader is their current state of health. Do you recall the last meeting you lead where you had a head cold, fever, sleep deprivation, worked an all-nighter, and just plain didn’t feel well? Most likely, it was much harder to make your meeting productive and get people fully engaged. It is time to add a new category here to deal directly with Leader Self-Care!

My twitter name is @headset and I’ve been posting tweets around cooking. Hardly seems like an appropriate business topic yet it plays a huge role in my self-care. Not only do I like to cook (and clean), I get to nourish my body with great food. Given that it is the Holiday Season (Merry Christmas all!), I send out a number of tweets (see below) on how to navigate the holiday parties without overloading on food, etc.

How do you take care of yourself to insure you are at the best of your mental and physical abilities when you lead meetings? Are you eating right? How about exercise? It is way to easy to neglect “important yet not urgent” things like eating, exercise, etc. How would your leadership in meetings be different if eating, proper exercise, etc. were “important and urgent”?

Here are the tweets I sent:

Healthy Holiday Tip #1: Conduct ALL food consumption negotiations BEFORE arriving. “I’ll just have one” = RED FLAG Hat tip to @pamfr (note: I gave Pam credit yet she reminded me it was not her who sparked this idea!)

Holiday Health Tip #2: RT: Join @annfry on her free holiday teleclass noon EST Dec 9, Tues

Healthy Holiday Tip #3: Cream OR sugar. Put the two together and you add weight quickly. Bummer if you love egg nog!

Healthy Holiday Tip #4: Environment is stronger than will (Bucky Fuller). Steer clear of high calorie locations and ignore testing yourself!

Healthy Holiday Tip #5: Eat a solid meal before you go to the holiday party. Fill up on the food that supports you. Do NOT go hungry!!

Healthy Holiday Tip #6: Walk for 15 minutes before you arrive at the party. Light exercise decreases appetite!

Healthy Holiday Tip #7: Alcohol gives immediate spike in blood sugar. Sweet treats look better by the minute! Dilute drinks or just water.

Were these helpful? Did they spark any ideas on how you can take better care of yourself? Any tips or suggestions you’d like to pass on to other readers? Thanks!

Posted by Byron Van Arsdale
Twitter: @headset
Author – 21 Ways to Screw Up a Teleclass
ConferenceCallTraining.com

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Is it Time to be a Purist?

Monday, December 15th, 2008

In the effort to “break it if it isn’t broken” we sometimes roll past best practices as we experiment with new ways of doing things. The advance in technology has given us high speed downloads, iPhones, Blackberry’s, smart phones, cell phones, iPods and other mp3 players, laptops, 24/7 access to Solitaire, PDAs, email, text messages, RSS feeds, blogs, and of course, tweets! When leading a conference call or presenting your product via webinar, you might ask yourself:

“How will this (fill in the blank) piece of technology support my ability to communicate AND engage with my participants?”

People praise athletes for their ability to accomplish amazing results when they are  “in the zone.” We are not talking about consuming high quantities of Mountain Dew or Red Bull and playing Grand Theft Auto 4 for 10 hours straight! Picture Tiger Woods in competition or the Dali Lama in meditation. Your focus is only on one thing. There is no multi-tasking.

Question:

If you approached your conference call or webinar with the same single-minded focus as Tiger Woods and all of your technology was disconnected, what could you accomplish?

It would be easy to dismiss this question as a nice theoretical exercise and go right back to the status quo. So let’s make it a bit more competitive just to see who has the guts to give it a go? I challenge you to lead one call or webinar where you have no distraction from technology.

Step One: lead a conference call (or webinar, teleclass, etc.), as you would normally do so. This is to establish a firm status quo in your mind as to how you divide your attention between technology, participants, IM or text messages, and your presentation. Write down your observations including any feelings you had during the presentation.

Step Two: lead a conference call (or webinar, teleclass, etc.), with all technology off other than essentials. If you are on a conference call, put your computer to sleep, turn off cell/smart phones, and even clear your desk of everything except what is needed for the call. If you are leading a webinar, have someone else drive the presentation so you can completely focus on the participants. Again, write down your observations and feelings.

Step Three: compare and contrast your experiences from Step One and Two. What was the difference? Did cutting out all other distractions improve your ability to lead and obtain results? Was your level of self-confidence higher or lower in Step 2?

Rarely do we change our behaviors or try something new in the absence of pain or frustration. This is the silver lining of the current financial mess – status quo is completely disrupted and we have the chance to review our strategies, assumptions, and behaviors. In 2009, your ability to confidently lead great meetings via conference calls, webinars, teleclasses, and virtually is more important than ever. Congratulations for taking on any part of this exercise. Testing your skills and then growing them to meet your expectations will see you experiencing more success in leading any type of meeting.

Would a model help you understand how to lead effective phone, face-to-face, and virtual meetings? You’d be surprised at how easy it is to run great meetings.

Posted by Byron Van Arsdale
Twitter: @headset
Author – 6 Principles of Powerful Conference Calls
ConferenceCallTraining.com

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Begin Leading Your Meeting Before You Ever Begin It!

Wednesday, December 10th, 2008

There is a huge lesson for leaders on how their daily actions impact the people they lead – often in ways they never imagined. On Wednesday, November 5th, we flew to Orlando for the 2008 National Association of REALTORS® (NAR) Annual Convention. Bernice was speaking and it was the official release of her new book, Real Estate Dough ™ – Your Recipe to Real Estate Success and the companion card game to teach negotiation skills (Real Estate Dough ™ – Negotiation). It was the first time her products were in the NAR bookstore.

We reserved a room at the Hilton Garden Inn Orlando at SeaWorld International Center, and settled in. I could feel it the moment I walked up to the desk to check-in. Manny greeted us with a smile and a warm welcome. Something just felt “right” here.

Over the course of the next six days, I would come to understand why the Hilton Garden Inn at SeaWorld International was ranked among the top of all Hilton Garden properties. Most of my time was spent at the hotel writing my book instead of walking around the NAR Tradeshow floor dressed up as a Chef promoting our RealEstateDough.com site.

Francine and Widelaine happily cleaned my room in the early afternoon as I took a break for lunch or went to the Tradeshow as the Chef. The food, be it breakfast or lunch was amazing thanks to the real Chef’s Tom (F&B Mgr), St. Rose, Felix, and Herbert. On the second day I thanked Tom in front of his staff to say thank you for the great service and delicious food he and his staff delivered. He smiled and said thank you.

Every morning, Cristina, William, Jose, and Jean smiled, warmly greeted us, and directed us to a table. In three days, I knew everyone by name and it felt like home. I love to cook and know good food – Chef Tom and his team of Chefs delivered great food at every occasion.

Then there was the Front Desk: Manny, Steven (Associate of the Year 2007), Nour, and Kelly. Speed, efficiency, and a warm greeting no matter how early or how late! Thanks to all of the staff at the Hilton Garden Inn at SeaWorld International. It didn’t feel like a hotel – it felt like home. What made this even more special was this was Days 6 – 12 out of 17 days on the road.

How do you treat others before and after leading your phone, face-to-face, and virtual meetings? Are you considerate “only when it counts” or do you operate that way 24/7? Do you go out of your way to assist someone despite a busy schedule? When was the last time you stopped to thank someone for the extra effort provided on your behalf? Your actions and behaviors AWAY from your meetings show up during your meeting. Try the following experiment. Spend the next week looking for ways to express your gratitude to everyone around you. Keep short notes of what you are experiencing during this time. You might find leading meetings to be far easier than you ever imagined possible.

Posted by Byron Van Arsdale
Twitter: @headset
Author – Executive Conference Call Leadership
ConferenceCallTraining.com

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Happy Thanksgiving!

Wednesday, November 26th, 2008

Wishing everyone a Happy Thanksgiving here in the United States! Belated Happy Thanksgiving to Canadians who celebrated on Monday, October 13th.

Thank you for reading, contributing, and telling others about this blog! We are grateful for your presence.

Sincerely, Byron

Posted by Byron Van Arsdale
Creator of 16 Secrets to a Great Conference Call
ConferenceCallTraining.com

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